“The reality is people mess up, don’t let one mistake ruin a beautiful thing.” Back in December was the worst place our marriage had been in. We just weren’t what we had been before. The tension was insane and I don’t think either of us really knew why. He felt like we were both mutually giving up, which is why he decided he wanted to separate, and I felt like the hope I was holding onto was slowly but surely disappearing. Eventually the tension became too much and I couldn’t help but to ask for answers and the answers were worse than I ever anticipated. I don’t think I’ll ever forget the way it felt, how much I sobbed in that one single day, or the look in his eyes when he said it. And the more we discussed everything the more it made sense, or so we thought. Our marriage had been through a lot before this past year. Big moves, long distance/a deployment, college; but we had made it. Even that couldn’t prepare us for what was to come though. Trying to get pregnant with B...